It
has been an issue for many clergy (at least the honest ones) to look
out on Easter morning and see the faces of people they have rarely or
never seen. Who are these people? Why will they not be here next
Sunday? It is nice to have a full church, but why just on this
Sunday? Is it their new clothes? Is it because they have a church
standard which requires them to attend twice per year? Is it because
God or the resurrection story has somehow touched them and they just
felt they had to be there?
What
ever the reason, these folks are there. Now arises the real
questions. What do we do with them? How do we treat them? Will
they return? Does it matter? Are they welcome?
Here
is how many Episcopal churches respond. At a point before the
beginning of the consecration of the elements at the altar a priest
will say something like this: “The Episcopal Church is an open
communion church. All baptized persons are welcome to receive
communion at this altar.” (Then follows a commentary on how to
hold your hands to receive the host/bread, how to receive the
chalice, and how to conduct yourself if you want to come forward for
a blessing).
I
just want to scream at this point. I look at the program for Good
Friday and there it is in print, right after the Lord's Prayer, BCP,
Page 364. “All baptized Christians are now invited to receive Holy
Communion.”
What
are we doing? What kind of place is our church? We welcome people
who are visiting. We tell them we are glad to have them with us. We
don't care if they came with a friend, because they know a member,
because they say an ad in the paper, because they felt a message from
the Holy Spirit, or if they just wondered in from the street. We
welcome them and ask them to fill out a card in the pew and give us
their name and a way we might be in touch with them and really
welcome them.
HOWEVER,
when it comes time for communion – only the baptized are invited to
the altar.
What
are we telling people who find their way in, feel a warm welcome, and
then, at the big moment, we say, “Not so fast there, newcomer.”
Is
that what we want? Let us stop this. Everyone is welcome at the
table. This is not our table. It is God's table.
In
the past few months, I have heard two priests say this in the
liturgy. Once at a funeral and once at the blessing of a couple.
These were special times.
I
thought perhaps we were getting better. Alas, it has not been heard
since by me.
It
is my belief that every celebration is a special time, but I have
been disappointed before. I, a baptized person, have been in
churches where I was not welcome at the altar and it felt very bad.
There was a sense that whatever God I knew, it was not enough to take
communion in that place. It is a terrible feeling to be in a church
and to be thought of as unwelcome at the altar. I do not wish that
on anyone from any church or from no church. Our God is larger than
that.
The
issue is really about us and how we wish to be a welcoming community.
This is not yesteryear. It is now and it is us.
Please,
let us be more Christ like. Happy Easter to all.